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Thursday, February 5, 2009

Mothers that are hurting...


I have a friend who has a 4 month old baby girl. Her husband left her on Mon and she came to stay with me. Well little did I know she didn't come to "stay" she came to try to use me as an alibi for a guy she met 5 days ago. She has been sounding not herself the past few days. I am so worried about her. She was the type of mom that wouldn't let me stand up and hold her baby. I had to stay sitting she was afraid that I might drop her. Well when she left she left her baby too. Which was hard to see. Her mom and husband found out that she has been cheating on him. I didn't know anything had happened until Mon. I am talking with her mom and come to find out she had been lying to everyone about everything. Her mom had a stroke about 6 months ago. she's a LD nurse. She's also going to school to finish her PHD. So her mom isn't a dumb one. I know that my friend has been raised in the church and she has been astray from it for a while. I know can see how my mom was hurting when my divorce and everything went down. I even called my mom to apologize for the way that I've acted in the past. I am really reflecting on things just listening to her mom and seeing the hurt that she's going through. I know that her family will be ok and even though everything that is happening she is blaming on me.... I think we can be ok. I want everyone to know that I learned from what mistakes I have made in the past. My testimony is stronger than it EVER has been...

2 comments:

Bev said...

How hard these valuable life lessons are to learn, unfortunately so many other people are hurt while we're learning these things. You're strong, you know what is right. Look how much you've learned, you'll need this wisdom for when your boys grow up. Remember that! I remember a story that helped make me strong when I was struggling with one or another of you kids....it was from a General Authority...I'll see if I can find it and share it with you. Keep your chin up kiddo and call me if you need a shoulder.

Paula said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

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NKOTB
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Pinetop

Pinetop
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word!!!

word!!!
You know what I mean!!!

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Smooches
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I'm stealing a smooch from chuckles!

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